According to the National Association of Elementary School Principals, lack of good manners is a growing problem in classrooms and playgrounds. I’m not surprised! That’s why I am a proponent of starting the process of teaching your children manners at a very early age. Take baby steps (no pun intended!) one manner at a time. Even though you know they don’t really understand what you are saying, you’ve planted the seed. Instead of just talking about a particular manner, try some of these methods.
I found them on a website called eHow.com.
- Play games using some of your children’s favorite stuffed animals or dolls. Set a table for a tea party or dinner. This is a perfect time for you to show them proper behavior and then let them teach their stuffed animal or doll what they have just learned.
- Engage in role playing activities. Act out real life scenarios. Role playing teaches your child about proper manners and behavior in creative ways that utilizes real-life situations.
- And of course my favorite, reading them books. Ask them questions about a certain character’s behavior. Did they display bad manners? Or did they display good manners? Have them tell you how they thought the character acted.
In my book, “Manners Are Free,” I use real-life situations so it is easy for children to relate to and a fun and easy way to learn basic manners.
Parents, remember to be patient. Don’t criticize when your child
does something wrong – gently tell them a better way to do it and why. When they do something right – make sure to give them positive reinforcement verbally, followed by a great big hug!!!!
